2016年4月29日星期五

Sugar Daddy: Is she your Sugar Baby or just a gold digger


As a Sugar Daddy, you are rich, successful. And there are always pretty girls around you; you can find your sweet sugar baby easily. But have you ever been suspicious that the person you are dating is more interested in your money than in you? Is she a real sugar baby or just a gold digger? If you are concerned about this and want to find out, here are some ideas to accomplish this and protect yourself before it is too late.

1: She always has many reasons for having money.

She always has a sob story for why she needs more money, or why she needs it sooner.  While there are instances where even the sweetest of Sugar Babies can find herself in a bit of a tough spot, a gold digger is a professional con artist, and these sob stories will pile in almost weekly.  Also, don’t be surprised if she has a new designer bag on her wrist next time you see her after helping her pay for sudden car repairs.

2: She has no career aspiration

A gold digger clearly lacks goals short of getting the next check to cash. Motivated Sugar Babies have a goal in mind when entering the Sugar Bowl, whether it’s finishing school, building her own business, or as simple as getting out of debt.  There is one goal a gold digger may have that you should be weary of, securing steady cash flow through marriage or a bouncy bundle of joy.  That’s at least 18 years of steady monthly “allowance”. 

3: Her friends are gold-digger

You can tell a lot about a woman by meeting people from her closest
circle. If a girl has a lot of friends that are only after men for their money, she will likely have this same attitude. People attract others that have things in common with. If her buddy, especially her best friend, is a gold-digger, you need to tread lightly.
In the end, do keep in mind, just because she comes to the table with needs in the arrangement does not make her a gold digger. It means that she has a clear understanding of the workings of a mutually beneficial relationship.  While it’s always best to keep a look out for these flags, you would be doing yourself a disservice to overlook some of the prime Sugar Babies on Sudy for fear of tasting a little salt. 
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2016年4月28日星期四

Sugar Daddy: if you’re not George Clooney, how to date after divorce


Divorce isn’t a single-forever sentence. Still, it can be intimidating to re-enter the world of datingAfter a divorce, you may be anxious to get back into the dating field to fill the void left by your spouse. To have the greatest success in returning to the dating world, it is important to be properly prepared both mentally and physically.

1: Make sure you’re ready

It sounds like trite advice, but it’s worth following: Don’t date
until you’re ready to date. You want to set yourself up for success. If you’re serious about finding love again, make sure you understand where you are in the healing process. Do you understand what went wrong in your last relationship? Are you aware of your role in the marriage’s end? Can you identify what a healthy relationship needs to look like for you? Give yourself the freedom of a little time and make sure your past is firmly in the past, along with the infamous “bitterness baggage,” before giving love a second chance.

2: Love yourself

Love yourself. Sometimes it’s easier said than done. Take a new class, get a new haircut, and eat healthier than ever. With the life changes you’ve gone through, make sure you’re taking the time to focus on you. Learn to thrive in your new situation. Dress in a way that makes you feel good about what you see in the mirror. Switch up your daily routine so you’re not stuck in past patterns and ruts by default, and choose to surround yourself with the people and things that inspire you.

3: Stay positive — and be up for the adventure

It doesn’t matter how old you are or what your relationship history is, first dates are nerve-wracking. Give yourself a pre-date pep talk, reminding yourself of the great qualities you have to offer. Stay positive, embrace the adventure, expect a few disappointments, and see your life as an unfolding story, one that will be worth telling.

4: Be honest

Divorce is rarely a deal-breaker in the dating world. It’s a sad but
very real fact that about half of marriages end, so prospective partners are often prepared to date people who’ve been married before. While you probably shouldn’t spill intimate details of your marriage’s demise on a first date, be honest and open (if/when appropriate) about the fact that you’re divorced. Don’t judge yourself on your date’s behalf; you’ll likely be surprised at the empathy and grace extended in response to your honesty. Everyone’s experienced heartache; it’s okay to be a little vulnerable about what yours looks like.

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2016年4月27日星期三

Sugar Daddy: What your sugar baby of choice says about her


There is nothing more attractive than a Sugar Baby who knows what she wants. Arguably, that may be the reason some of you joined Sudy in the first place. But before you are able to learn her dreams, aspirations, college goals, etc., it’s important to look for subtle clues. Noticing the way she orders her drink is a perfect start. Here is what her drink of choice says about her.

1: Red wine

Real women drink red wine. It’s a delicate and traditional drink that for years, has been a great companion to housewives, steak dinners, and celebratory binge drinking. A women who religiously enjoys red wine is utmost classy and wants to see her man as such. Show off that Rolex a little bit. Don’t be surprised that women who prefer this beverage are rarely seen at bars. She’s a smooth talker and intricate. Just like the stain this drink would leave if mishandled, rattling a red wine drinker’s cage would leave an irremovable blemish on your life. You’ve been warned.


2: White wine

Who doesn’t love a lush? Just ask the housewives who ritually
indulge in this beverage of choice. This Sugar Baby most likely knows a thing or two about class. She knows how to pronounce “Pinot Noir” and may even have knowledge behind the grape variety. She’s high maintenance and most likely not the type you take to a sports bar. She wants you to see she knows how to handle her life, and her man. After all, red wine can leave a nasty stain if mishandled, therefore she’s careful and calculated. Her mannerisms and her speech might just be as velvety and smooth as the liquid in her glass. Take caution with this one, she’s not for the beginner SD.

3: Margarita

Are you ready for a long-term relationship? Neither is she. These sugar babies love to party. Look at the size of the margarita. If she has the glass that’s comparable to a milk jug, she’s a regular and knows how to flirt.

4: Strawberry Margarita

On the surface, the flavored marg sugar baby seems like a good time, but deep, deep down she is just a walking ball of insecurity ready to burst. She is constantly worried about what you’re thinking of her. She’s always obsessing about how she’s standing to make sure her arms are looking as skinny as possible, terrified about the possibility that her marg salt is stuck to the side of her mouth just waiting to fuck up the Insta that she has been craftily waiting to post in order to make her former bestie, the vodka soda drinker, cry out of jealously and paranoia of weight gain.

5: Martini

James Bond isn’t the only one who knows how to order a martini.
A Sugar Baby who knows exactly how to instruct her bartender is going to be an aggressor in the sheets, and full of mystery. She’ll intrigue your interests — she’s educated, well-travelled, and not afraid to be strong in her values and opinion. Much like the drink itself, she’s willing to be straight up with you. A martini-drinking Sugar Baby most likely knows her limits, so don’t push her.

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2016年4月26日星期二

If Beckham be the Sugar Daddy, what should he do when he is sugaring?


38-year-old ex-soccer player turned model may just be the perfect Sugar Daddy to numerous sugar babies on our website. After all, the average age of a sugar daddy is 39. Clearly, he falls within our age bracket. Of course, David Beckham is not currently enrolled as a sugar daddy on our site, although he could be one day. But if Beckham be the sugar daddy, as a married man, what should he do when he involved with a single Sugar Baby. Here are some tips to help these married men navigate the rougher paths of sugar.


1: Set boundaries.

Boundaries should be set with in your arrangement from the get-go. If this means you can only see your Sugar Baby once a month, then this should be discussed when you initially meet. You should also decide which discussions are off-limits. You should keep away from hot-button topics such as your wife, kids, or anything too personal. You do not want to cross a line, or get your Sugar Baby involved in the mama drama. Your arrangement should be something to distract you from the daily routine.


2: Your needs are No.1

No strings attached means exactly that. Your other strings should be
kept perfectly intact throughout the arrangement process. No red flags should be raised to your coworkers, friends, or family. Your Sugar Baby should be totally aware that she may not be your top priority, and that the relationship will be a discrete one. You can still make your Sugar Baby feel satisfied and taken care of through little presents or gifts. This will have to suffice if you don’t necessarily have the time to commit to seeing her face to face.

 3: The L word

This rule is pretty simple. Do not fall in love, period. Unless you are exiting your marriage, do not fall for your Sugar Baby. It’s better to not lead anyone on, and it could get extremely messy. Don’t let your hormones fool you – the L word you could actually be falling in is Lust. And on the note of lust, always be safe when you are sexually active with your Sugar Baby. You wouldn’t want any accidents to occur. baby mama drama, no thank you.
If you are married and discreetly seeing other people, it can be complicated, yet the rewards can be very worthwhile. Unless you are in an open marriage, make sure to always keep the two situations completely separate from one another, and have fun!
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2016年4月22日星期五

Sugar Daddy: How to spoil my sugar baby


Sugar comes in all forms. But no matter how it presents itself, it’s always undeniably sweet. While allowance may be the most traditional, and in many cases, sought after form of steady Sugar, times are changing in the ways it can add sweetness to a Sugar Baby’s life, without being sugar supplements. The bags may be beautiful and the shoes are timeless, but take a look at some other rewarding forms of Sugar today.


1: Gift Cards

She wants something a bit more specialized. Basic gift cards like Target and Whole Foods are great for staples, or gift her a few grand on a Saks card and see what she picks. Some might see this as lazy, but I assure you, she will be pleased.
2: Travel
Those who claim travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer clearly never had a Sugar Daddy to foot the bill. The ability to travel to distant places that many others simply jot down on their bucket lists is uniquely rewarding.  Whether traveling allows you to gain culture or a glowing tan, exploration is always enriching.

3: Living Expense

Taking on the living expenses of a Sugar Baby may be daunting to newbies, but it becomes mutually beneficial in many ways.  Your Sugar Baby won’t have to waste her time working numerous dead end jobs to pay for an overpriced one bedroom just to keep herself out of the dorms. In return, it frees up her time and availability to you, not to mention her gratitude which can be quite rewarding on its own.

4: Cash

Favored by Sugar Babies everywhere, cold, hard cash is always a great option. Paperless and anonymous, this is the best option for a Sugar Daddy who wants to remain discreet. Bonus points for crisp $100 bills.

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2016年4月21日星期四

Sugar Daddy Discretion


The perks of having an arrangement go without saying, but the stigmas require a level of Sugar Daddy discretion. In order to protect your privacy, here are some tips for remaining discreet.


1: Be care for what you post.

Before you agree to your first date, be very careful what you post in your profile, as this is public information and can be viewed by anyone: your exes, your employer, co-workers, friends, family…you never know who might stumble across it. Naturally, profiles with photos get more views and you want to include recent pics of yourself, but I recommend blurring or cropping your face to completely protect your privacy. Once you meet someone you are interested in, you can take the conversation offsite and exchange personal photos privately via email.

2:About email: Create a new email address

Signing up and communicating with people can both be done from an alternate email address. I recommend using one that’s not your work email. Your information is completely safe and encrypted on the site or app, so there’s no concern for your privacy to be threatened. However, when you do start talking to someone new, your information remains private until you are comfortable with her, and are ready to share.

3: Have private photos.

Not only does this entice women to see a bit more of you, this is also the safest way to have pictures on the site. The images are only viewable from accounts whose permission you have granted. If you ever decide against sharing them, simply un-share and that person can no longer see them.

4: Get a “sugar” phone number

Smartphones open a world of password protected possibilities, Google Voice is really great for this. It’s a free service that allows you to choose from a database of available numbers from all over the US. You can then link your Google Voice number to your real phone line and all the calls made to your Google Voice number will automatically be re-routed to your phone. This is a really functional way of separating your anonymous online life with your real one.

5: Be honest with your sugar baby

Telling anyone you get involved with about your situation is vital to keeping things discreet. They need to know your availability, when to call, and when not to. If you are married, have kids, or have special circumstances, chances are they will be more than happy to accommodate.
How do you think about these tips? I hope it will be useful.
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2016年4月20日星期三

Sugar Daddy date preparation


As a Sugar Daddy, and at this point in life, you’ve hopefully been on a few dates. A few bad dates, to be more specific. Let us go over the best ways to make your next date a smashing success.

1: Phone calls

There are a couple phone calls that need to be made prior to the date, preferably the day before. The first one is to her, confirming times and making sure she’s still up for it. This is also the time to make sure she doesn’t have any qualms or allergies with the cuisine. Always have a phone call before meeting someone; it can help you decide whether you really want to take her out. The next call is to the restaurant making a reservation. Don’t show up without one, even if the place is empty, she’ll feel good knowing you took the initiative to prepare for your date. Finally, call or text anyone who might decide to blow up your phone during the date, and kindly ask them not to. You don’t want her to be on her phone, so try to stay off yours.

2: Dress sharply

Women love a sharp-dressed man and if you’re about to become a beautiful woman’s sugar daddy, you better look good beside her. Good taste in clothing can be cultivated and since you want to be your own brand, don’t be afraid to find a style all your own. If you need good advice, hire a personal stylist. He will be able to guide you in choosing the right cut, color and trend that will bring out your looks. If you want to create an extra big splash, learn to wear white tie properly with this list – then invite your lady to a fancy white tie event. But above all, remember, you don’t have to wear a suit to look sharp – you can dress casually and still look a million bucks.

3 Arrive early

Nothing says you don’t care like arriving more than 15 minutes late to a date. I suggest arriving early, and sitting at the bar to wait for her. That way, you get a head start on drinking so you’re loose, and you can text her saying “I’m the devilishly handsome man in the black shirt at the bar.”

4: Cash in

Make sure to stop and get some cash, so if the credit card machine goes down or the street vendor doesn’t accept Amex then you’re covered. It’s always nice to have a little extra on hand if you want to throw her a token of your appreciation or if you leave your card at the bar on accident and need to pay the cabbie.
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2016年4月19日星期二

The benefits of being a Sugar Daddy


A Sugar Daddy is a rich older man who offers professional and financial support to young female in exchange of companionship and usually sexual favors. Being rich and successful could attract a number of young women eager for a relationship of mutual convenience. Here are a few benefits that come with taking on the role of a sugar daddy.


1: You do always get what you want

No games, no waiting, no more. The Sudy Sugar Daddy dating app turns a man’s “maybes” into reality by giving them complete control in finding their perfect match. With women outnumbering men 10 to 1, a Sugar Daddy never has to settle for the “next best thing.” If you’ve always dreamed of dating a young, vivacious blonde, she’s yours. If your ideal arrangement is a beautiful black woman, she’s yours. A successful Sugar Daddy deserves to ultimately make the decision—not a “matchmaking” system.

2: No-strings relationship

The best part of being a sugar daddy is that you are not expected to fulfill the obligations of a long-term relationship. Sugar babies know from the start this is relationship is based on mutual convenience – she gets the goodies as long as she makes her sugar daddy happy. He does not to have to shoulder the responsibilities that come with a committed relationship and this makes the relationship an attractive proposition for many older, richer men most of whom may have been long-married and may even have grown-up children.

3: The perfect arm candy

She’s stunning, she’s with you and she’s the reason why everyone’s head is turning.
Ever wonder what it’s like to be Hugh Hefner? Now you know.
4: Less time consuming
Sugar daddies are usually men who have achieved a significant measure of success in their field of work. This means that men who run companies or look after business empires do not have the leisure to nurture and care for a relationship those younger men might do. As a result being a sugar daddy suits these busy men since it is a relationship where the partners already understand the give and take and no time need be spent on beating about the bush. It looks good. A sugar daddy can flaunt their attractive companions openly and publicly. Moreover it feels good to be seen with a young, gorgeous woman who idolizes you and also know that other men envy your good fortune.

5: Feel younger again

A Sugar Baby is your own personal “fountain of youth” – she’s energetic, adventurous and open to new experiences. And the best part? She wants to spend her youth with you. You’ve dedicated your life to becoming a wealthy and successful gentleman. Now relax a little and enjoy the finer (and more beautiful things) in life.

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2016年4月18日星期一

Biggest mistakes Sugar Daddies make


The best part of the Sugar Daddy-seeking process is finding someone who ‘clicks’ with all the special things you’re looking for. But what are you saying to draw those potential sugary sweet interests? In order to bolster your chances, make sure that you are not doing the following with your ongoing efforts:

1.     Talking too much about self

Yes, a woman, who wants to be your sugar baby, will want to know that you are capable of taking care of her physically, but she also wants to know what you can do for her emotionally. Contrary to what some believe, these women are not usually greedy and only after the money. They want a combination of caring and support from you, and that's what you should be prepared to give them if you are serious about becoming a sugar daddy. However, many men make the mistake of putting themselves up on a pedestal and forgetting that she is even a person.
2.     Taking care of the physical, ignoring the emotional
Instead of buying her whatever she wants and making sure she has no physical needs while spending all of your time wrapped up in business and failing to make physical contact with her, you should take time away from the office and the hectic pace that you set for yourself, and include her in your life. Nothing sends a message about what kind of guy you are more than how far you're willing to include her in the things that you love. Too often, guys think that if they keep her physical needs appeased, they will not have to worry with the rest.

3.     Some messaging mistakes

The biggest component of finding who you desire to spend time with is asking the right questions. If a darling Sugar Baby opens your message with anticipation only to find a wall of text with nothing but “I-I-I,” then a serious problem is occurring. There must be a balance between talking about yourself and learning about this beautiful person on the other side of the screen. Sugar Babies should actively contribute to the conversation, yet Sugar Daddies must put forth an effort to be genuine.

4: Lying


The final and perhaps greatest tip to all Sugar Daddies is the need to avoid LIES. The Black Eyed Peas could not have said it any better. Lies will get you into trouble. If you are seeking discretion, lies will get you caught. Do not state in your first message that you are leaving your wife, if you know in the back of your mind that the conversation has never arose. Do not claim to have a wall of college degrees when all you possess is a GED. These are details that come up in conversation as you become more comfortable with each other. You’re bound to slip up at some point, especially if there are multiple Babies in the Sugar Bowl.

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2016年4月15日星期五

How to discuss allowance with Sugar Daddy


Talking about money in general is uncomfortable. But talking about money with your Sugar Daddy can be so awkward that many Sugar Babies would rather avoid the conversation altogether. But if you can’t talk about it with your Sugar Daddy, then it’s almost a guarantee that you won’t get everything from you want from your relationship. If the thought of asking a potential sugar daddy for money terrifies you – don’t worry, you’re not alone. And – it’s totally natural. Most of us simply aren’t used to asking for money and don’t have the first clue on how to go about it gracefully. But practice – and a few tips – makes perfect. Follow the tips below, practice them and you’ll be breezing through the allowance talk in no time.

1: Get this one thing straight

This allowance thing is NOT about how much you are worth. YOU are priceless. There is no way to set a monetary value on yourself and your qualities so don’t even try. The allowance thing is about asking for what you need and want; in proportion to the time and attention you can give to your sugar daddy. Most likely, a monthly allowance will depend on several factors, such as how much you need to live comfortably, what extra material comforts you’d like, how much you’d like to save, how much time you plan on spending with your sugar daddy, other expenses that will come up in your sugar relationship, etc. Spend your time figuring out the monetary range of what your needs and wants amount to rather than trying to assess how much you’re worth.

2: Get comfortable asking for what you want.

You have a set allowance range now. Now the key is to get comfortable with it. You see, the reason why discussing allowance is such an uncomfortable topic is that most people haven’t had much practice in asking for money. And at first, asking a potential sugar daddy for several thousands of dollars per month is going to feel kind of awkward. Try it right now – speak your amount out loud to yourself. Do you feel a tinge of discomfort? Any inner resistance cropping up? Any little voices in your head that say, “That’s too much.”If you do – you’re going to need this exercise. Repeat it ’til you’re so comfortable with your number range, it seems guaranteed.

3: Confidence is key

Here’s something that many sugar babies forget about men: They don’t usually bargain hunt. So when discussing allowance, go in with the expectation that he will give you what you ask for. This way, when he asks you for your ideal allowance, you can respond simply and matter-of-factly that you’re “thinking $x,xxx.” Keep a smile on your face and say what you want as naturally as you would tell him what you plan on ordering for dinner. Be honest with what you want and don’t be afraid to ask for it.

4. K.I.S.S.

At the same time, do NOT feel like you need to justify the amount you’re asking for. Talking about your debt, your bills, etc. is so, entirely unnecessary. Even if he asks, remember that you don’t need to tabulate your expenses for him. Be blunt, be matter-of-fact and stick to something simple, such as high cost of living or your desire to save. You don’t even need to really justify this, just laugh it off with a “Well, a girl’s gotta save, yea?”
In the end, remember that all the tips in the world won’t do much good if you don’t put them to use. So get out there and get used to asking for – and getting what you want.

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2016年4月14日星期四

Sugar Daddy dating tips


It can be a difficult venture to find that special someone in your life, especially you are a Sugar Daddy. You might not have much energy to handle the traditional relationship so you turn into the sugar bowl. Even though the concept of sugar daddy dating is quite clear and outgoing; sugar date can always be a bit stressful or tricky when you meet each other offline. You might find yourself in a situation wherein you do not know how to really behave and feel. And this is a common observation between people who meet each other for the first time; as in, on a date.
Therefore, to relieve you from all the thinking and unwanted stress I have listed down a few basic tips for your sugar date.
1.     Punctual
A lot of people do tend to ignore this but if we seriously consider variables; time is one of the most imperative things to look out for. Similarly, when you're going for your sugar date, make sure that you reach on time and this implies for both. There is never a good enough reason to keep anyone waiting especially on your sugar date. If you're going to be late, please make sure you inform the other.
2: Don’t be cheap
No you don’t have to spend thousands on a pair of nice suit, but you do need to shell out a few hundred for a nice meal. The arrangement is a value exchange, you pay for a nice meal and you both have a great time and she rewards you with sex.
2.     Sniff out the gold diggers
There will be some girls that you will become familiar with that are in it just for the money, they have no interest in sleeping with you. The easiest way to sniff them out is if they talk about the money before meeting you.
If they are normal girls that just want to experience the high-life then they won’t come out with those sorts of questions.
3.     Plan the date out before meeting.
Get your story straight. Most girls won’t ask too many questions, they will just assume that you have money, if you are on one of these sites.
The other thing you need to plan is the restaurant or first meet up place you want to take her too. I would recommend you take her to a restaurant that is in the mid range, nothing too fancy that you can’t afford but will easily be $200 to $300 for the both of you. The closer to your place the better, this is a pretty important logistical rule if you want to attempt to sleep with her on the first meet.
4.     Go on a test meet
So after the first meet is a feeler for what type of girl she is (crazy, funny, adventurous, gold digger, DTF etc). It’s fine for you to run the usual game, be very flirtatious with her, kino, learn about her and connect on a deeper level. If you both get along and you feel as though shes attracted to you, then proceed to the close… if she’s nuts a gold digger or just butt ugly, then you should make your excuses and bolt.
Sugar dates are always critical for a long lasting and healthy relationship. It is important that you make the most of this opportunity and try to be as marketable as possible. Although there is no dearth of sugar daddies and sugar babies, it would be good if you are able to make a lasting impression on your maiden date.

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2016年4月13日星期三

What are Sugar Daddy looking for?


It’s not fair to say that all Sugar Daddies are the same and that they’re all looking for the same thing. Some sugar daddies are looking for arm candy or even a trophy bride while others are looking for a woman who will give them the sex and affection they crave. There are, however, some things that all sugar daddies want in a sugar baby. So, what do sugar daddies expect from any sugar baby? It is romance, enthusiasm or passion? Below are a few sugar daddy expectations from their sugar babies.

1.     An Elegant and Sophisticated Lady

Sugar daddies are looking for a lady who is an expert in wooing them with their charms in a considerate and delicate manner. The lady should know what she wants and choose him because she feels she is compatible with him in all regards. All in all, having a sugar baby is all about finding a lady who makes you feel adored and who you can as well adore. Failure to get a lady who understands how to charm a man may make the relationship boring and short-lived.

2.     Discretion

Discretion is something that every sugar daddy wants and expects from any sugar baby he dates. Being able to be discreet about the who’s, what’s, where’s, when’s, and whys of your arrangement is absolutely crucial whether a sugar daddy is married or not. Its not your place to talk about him or his business or even his business with you, so just don’t do it.

3.     Convenience

Convenience is another thing that all sugar daddies want when it comes to their relationship with a sugar baby. If you expect this man to be generous with his money then you need to be generous with the most important thing that you have to offer a sugar daddy— your time. Sugar daddies are busy with work and/or personal commitments. Finding a sugar baby means that he gets to spend his time with a beautiful woman when he wants to. That’s what he wants and that’s essentially what he is paying for, so make it as easy as possible for potential sugar daddies to get what they want so you get what you want. Being able to offer flexibility is golden in the world of sugar daddy dating.

4.     Financial Discreetness

Although sugar daddies will provide virtually every financial support for a sugar baby, most of them want the whole affair to be about more than just the money. A sugar daddy might be taken aback or feel offended if a sugar baby compels him to clarify the financial details. Some sugar daddies will even avoid the subject altogether, but still take the sugar baby out on expensive dates and spending fun-filled holidays in luxurious hotels.

5.     Respect to Boundaries

Most sugar daddies are married men and they look for a sugar baby who will respect boundaries and adjust to his family lifestyle easily. A sugar daddy wants a lady who won’t expect him to call her in the middle of the night just to know how her day was. Furthermore, when a sugar daddy call and wants to meet up, he is only looking to escape for a couple of hours, relax and enjoy himself. This means most sugar daddies want a sugar baby who won’t give them a hard time about them not seeing each other for days or even weeks. The same is the case for an unmarried sugar daddy who isn’t married. Neither of them is looking for a wife.
Last, remembering that all sugar daddies want these things will make you a lot more successful as a sugar baby. Being pretty may help lure in a sugar daddy, but it won’t be enough to help a sugar baby catch him and keep him where you want him.

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2016年4月12日星期二

Sugar Daddy: How to date a college Sugar Baby


Being a student is a lot of fun. But being a student can also be tough. Yet, so many college girls are turning into sugar bowl for the high tuition fees. As for Sugar Daddy, they prefer date a college sugar baby, because they are much younger and more vibrant than the older. However, recently, I’ve been receiving what seems like tons of questions about how to date a college sugar baby.
A college sugar baby is expecting something great. You wouldn’t be an ideal sugar daddy unless you can show her a good time, impress her, and make her feel like a princess. Here are some tips about how to date a college sugar baby. Hope it will be useful.

1. Dress appropriately

First impressions can make or break your relationship with a new sugar baby, so keep that in mind when you’re picking out your outfit. Pick something that’s classy and elegant, but that still reflects your personal style. And dress according to your plans.

2. Rent out a theater and watch a movie

Simple, but effective. Going to a movie allows you to get close, laugh together, share popcorn, and have something to talk about when the date is over. But, movie theaters are not just for the average date. A sugar daddy date can take an average movie theater experience and make it awesome. You can simply buy out all the tickets, or talk to a manager to see if you can get a deal on the entire theater. If you pick a movie that she likes, she will have a good time. The empty theater and ability to laugh as loud as she wants will impress her. And the fact that you took the time to rent out an entire space for her will make her feel important.

3. Rent out an entire dining room at an upscale restaurant

Dining with others can be distracting, even if it is at an upscale restaurant. For a first date with a sugar baby, you want to keep her attention while you impress her so that she can get to know the real you and quickly decide if she wants to go further. Just remember that while everyone likes to eat, some people may not like certain foods, so don’t pick a restaurant that only serves fish or an ethnic food. Pick one that caters to all tastes and diets to really help her enjoy herself.

4: A weekend trip

A lot of sugar babies want to go on trips but can’t afford to, which is one of the reasons they are seeking a wealthy man. For a first date, you don’t want to pick a chalet in the mountains because that is just too private. Keep it fun and take her to Vegas where she can play the slots, take in the shows, and enjoy the food with you. One weekend will be enough to get her hooked on the feeling that you can provide to her, plus it allows her to get to know you much more than a few hour date could.


In the end, dating a college sugar baby is not difficult than the traditional dating, just pay attention to take care of her feeling and be gentleman.

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2016年4月11日星期一

Sugar Daddy: Should I marry a sugar baby?


One of the biggest problems wealthy men have with being a Sugar Daddy is that they can’t always distinguish a mutually beneficial relationship from a normal relationship. They have trouble disconnecting the two. As a result, they go to a sugar daddy dating App like Sudy- a sugar daddy dating app to find a sugar baby, and the next thing they know, they’re falling in love. Or at least, they think they’re falling in love.
I always try to emphasize to new sugar daddies and new sugar babies that the point of a mutually beneficial relationship is to stop dating as though it was something meant to lead toward marriage, and start dating simply to have the benefits of dating. But it’s a strange concept for a lot of people to grasp.
So if you are one of those many wealthy men who fall in love with a sugar baby make sure you ask yourself a few important questions before you pop The Question.

First, ask yourself if you genuinely want a marriage, or if you’re just enjoying the lust a little too much and not thinking straight. Remember, as soon as you marry your sugar baby, she’s no longer your sugar baby. She becomes your wife.

Second, make sure she genuinely has feelings for you. Sugar babies are experts at making men feel loved. That doesn’t mean she loves you. She probably really likes you and enjoys you, but that doesn’t mean she wants to marry you.

And third, be sure that being her sugar daddy benefactor now isn’t going to turn into you paying alimony down the road. While they’re sugar babies, they’re tied to you. But if they become a wife, they can divorce you. In that case, you get none of the perks of a mutually beneficial relationship, but you get all of the expenses.

At last, in my opinion, I don’t think sugar daddy should marry a sugar baby. Can a grown man have that with a woman nearly half his age? I don’t think so. And what sugar baby would want to marry a man that old? And what happens when she is in her 40s or 50s and he is 70? One has to consider these things. However, if you and your sugar baby both fall in love with each other, and you want to settle down, marriage is ok.

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2016年4月8日星期五

The real life of Sugar Daddy


Being a Sugar Daddy isn’t just about running around St. Tropez with a bevy of tanned 20-somethings on your aging arm. And sugar daddies’ real life is not always full of luxuriousness and extravagance.   There is a guy named Trent, he’s in his 40s, has some serious discretionary income, says he is about 6’1” and takes good care of himself. And this man paying about $100,000 annually to date. Why is this man paying so much money to date? And what’s the real life of sugar daddy
Having everything laid out candidly has a certain appeal, Trent says. “We all have our price, be it money, shoes, security, intimacy or attention.  ” Meanwhile Trent told me, with this kind of relationship, he know what the deal is. The girls know why he is with them. But I wonder on that first date, is there haggling about price? Then I asked him “are you just like, ‘This is the salary. Take it or leave it?’” “Some girls are really comfortable with asking for certain things.” He said, “In fact, you always know when you meet a seasoned veteran, because I’ve met girls who have mentioned nothing about an allowance, and others do so immediately. One particular girl I am seeing, I give her $1,000 every time I see her.”
“What are the ground rules? If you’re providing a generous amount of money to a girl, does that mean she’s at your beck and call?” I asked him another questions. He told me the truth is, everything is pre-planned. There is no spontaneity at all. Finally, I asked him a last question, “Do you go on dates, or is it all about the end game?” He said, “I’ve thought I was in love, but then I came to my senses and I realized it was just lust. I’m not some kind of sex machine where I have to have sex all the time. It’s just that once it was over, I realized it was the lust side that was keeping me in the relationship.”
After this conversation with Trent, I know more things about sugaring and sugar daddy, and I would like to share these to you guys. So I write this article, hope it will be useful.

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2016年4月7日星期四

Some features of Newbie Sugar daddy


It’s not easy to find a perfect Sugar Daddy. Just like you probably have a set of qualities and characteristics that you’re looking for in a man, there’s a good chance that he knows what he’s looking for, too. And not all sugar daddies are going to be looking for the same things.
If you’re trying to find a sugar daddy who has the qualities you’re looking for, who’s compatible, and who wants the same things that you do, it might help to know the different types of sugar daddies out there. And in my last blog, we’ve talked about married sugar daddy, older sugar daddy, and bachelor sugar daddy. Today, this article will tell you some features about the newbie sugar daddy.

1.     The first-time sugar daddy.

Not all sugar daddies are smooth playboys—some are still just testing the sugar daddy dating waters. Being new to the game, he hasn’t really set his standards yet, which means he may come across as being indecisive or hesitant, but that’s usually temporary. He could be young or older, but he’s likely open to trying new things, at least until he figures out what he does and doesn’t want in a sugar baby.

2.     They are not so successful

He may be young. He may be old. But one thing is true—he is new to the game. Reading sugar baby blogs, I’ve noticed a terrible habit among inexperienced babies who think they are pros: ending a potential arrangement or demanding higher allowances because his offer is low. Remember that though you may be used to a certain standard, he is still learning. These men are gems because they haven’t been jaded by Splenda. So, please be kind.

3.     They are more enthusiastic

Newbie sugar daddies are also enthusiastic and inexperienced in nature which can lead to making rash or bad decisions, but their general openness, curiosity and willingness to try out new experiences more than compensate for any of their flaws. They are generally more energetic; often enjoy socializing and partying, so they would be the ideal choice for any sugar baby looking for an easy going relationship and a fun time. They can also be the perfect partner to take on vacations abroad as they will go to great lengths to find the best clubs and parties in town, showing you the time of your life.

Meet your perfect sugar daddy is not so easy. I hope this article will help girls know more about sugar daddy types and make your right choice.

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2016年4月6日星期三

Tips on being a good Sugar Daddy



Many men dream of being a Sugar Daddy. As a sugar daddy, you can get to enjoy dinners and exotic vacations with a beautiful, vibrant younger woman, with absolutely no pretenses. Having a relationship with a sugar baby can be a lot of fun, but if you want to get the best out of your arrangement with your sugar baby, make sure that you follow these simple tips for being a good sugar daddy.

1. Talk to your sugar baby

Good Sugar Daddies know how to charm their women. They speak well of them and ask questions about all sorts of things. They put their women on a stage and let them shine! From asking them each time they encounter them, "How are you?" to "Is there anything that you need?" Makes these darlings feel special.

2. Have good manners

While your relationship with your sugar baby is based on companionship, fun and monetary compensation, rather than romance, good manners are still vital. If you want to keep your sugar baby happy, fun and positive, then make sure that you have good manners. Open doors for her, compliment her, don’t be late for your dates, and show her that you are a gentleman. By doing this, you will show her that you are kind and confident and women love that mix.

3. Meet her needs

A man that makes a promise and doesn't keep it is usually black-balled in men's groups and elsewhere. Well the same holds true in the Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby relationship. If he says repeatedly he is going to help the young lady with things like her car, college textbooks, tuition, wardrobe, or other things, she is going to expect him to keep his word. If not, the Bad Sugar Dad will have one less sweetheart on his arm.

4. Communicate

Communication is vital for a good relationship, even in a sugar daddy arrangement. Make sure that you communicate your needs clearly. If there are ever any issues in your relationship with your sugar baby, then make sure that you communicate with her clearly. Lying to her could also cause problems in the relationship, so make sure that you are honest and open with her.
Being a good sugar daddy is very important. So, by following these tips, you can make sure that you and your sugar baby get the most out of your relationship.

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