2016年5月6日星期五
Sugar Daddy: how to handle the first dinner date
Any first date is
loaded with pressure. Should you order the garden salad or opt for a cup of the
pungent french onion soup? Do you go in for a kiss, or end with a hug? You
never quite know how to make things progress 100 percent smoothly, but you can
do your best to ensure the date is survivable. We’ve thrown together our top
five suggestions to ensure your potential Sugar Baby see’s the light of a
second date.
1: Don’t eat with the speed of an industrial strength vacuum cleaner.
Don’t eat with the
speed of an industrial strength vacuum cleaner. The way you dine is a metaphor
for the way you make love so make sure you don’t do so in a way that brings to
mind a lower primate, or in the case of us gals, an epicurean version of Lorena
Bobbit. Do eat slowly and sensuously and make eye contact. Remember that dining
together is a form of foreplay.
2: Don’t go over your limit
The first dinner
date is not the time to drink and party like you did in college. This is a meal
that is to be shared between two mature adults. Sugar Daddies, avoid any
behaviors that could incite an argument if you clearly see that your date is
getting a bit tipsy. Do not keep the drinks coming if your date is an obvious
lightweight. Be respectful, order a cab for her, and reconnect when she’s back
to her usual self. The last thing either party should want to do is say or do
anything that could prevent a good thing from happening before it’s even
started.
3: Do be discreet
Paying or tipping
should always be done as smoothly and as subtly as possible. Do not make
clumsy, boarish errors such as arguing over how much each person owes (read:
you’re cheap), using large bills to pay for small checks (read: you’re showy),
or gregariously grabbing the check out of the waiter’s hand to demonstratively
pay with your credit card. Such behavior makes people feel beholden and
uncomfortable. Just pay the check, move it to one side, and be done with it.
4: Do plan for the best
If things go well,
then what? Say you’re having an amazing night that you want never to end.
Great! Unfortunately, the lights are up, the tables are empty—and the waiters
are yawning. It’s time to leave, and nothing makes you look cooler or sexier
than knowing a great bowling alley/wine bar/pool hall just around the corner!
Now is the time to mention that your former roommate bartends two blocks away
to see if your date’s up to continuing the fun. Being prepared can help stretch
a good time into a great evening.
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2016年5月5日星期四
Sugar Daddy: How to put my sugar baby in a corner
There are times you want to have a new sugar baby, or you
want to have a relationship with a woman you don’t have a paid arrangement
with. There are other times you may simply want to be free or you’re just tired
of the sugar baby you have. It happens to everyone at some point, and there’s
no reason to feel bad about it. Ultimately, you need to be classy about how you
tell her it’s over. Following a few simple steps will get you out of your
agreement and leave her satisfied.
1: break off her in person
Crucially, to avoid a woman scorned scenario, break it
off with her in person – don’t send the dreaded break up text and then avoid
all calls. Take her out to dinner and explain that you care for her and her
feelings so you don’t want to hurt her because you can’t feel the same way she
does. Make her feel like you are considering her feelings, being very courteous
rather than stringing her along. Add that there are many other sugar daddies
out there who would be glad to have a relationship with her, someone who is
more deserving of her than you are. Someone who can give her all her needs,
where you are failing. This will help her feel it is actually positive for her.
Perhaps even give her something that you know is her favorite, to soften the blow
further. You should part dinner very amicably. Also ending it on a nice
mutually agreeable level might leave the door open for one-off meets in the
future should you so desire.
2: Tell her you have a new sugar baby.
Tell her you have a new sugar baby, though this might add
fuel to the fire. But one thing it will do is help her realize you are 100%
serious and have moved on. You don’t want to start an unseemly public cat fight
so make sure they don’t meet. If she’s still acting up tell her you will report
her to whatever site you met her through, which will mess up her chances of
landing a new sugar daddy in the future. She won’t want to mess up that, trust
me. It will also act as a document in case you have to go the legal route.
3: Moving forward
Not all breakups will end badly. Sometimes it is as
simple as a quick
hug
and saying “goodbye.” If there is an occasional gift that pops up, consider
donating any remaining items, and return newer items if possible. If these
breakups are a repeat thing, consider speaking with a counselor to set a plan
for what you want vs what you need in a relationship (traditional or
otherwise). Remember: the definition of insanity is repeating the same actions
and expecting different results. If this is your first time going through the
Sugar Breakup, this will likely hold the sting of breaking up with a
girlfriend. This is someone you’ve spent quality time with, let them in on your
deepest thoughts, and likely looked forward to being around at some of your
most vulnerable moments. It’s okay to run through the conversation a few times in
your head. It’s okay to have a few nights out with the guys. Rest in knowing
that your future holds more fun. Avoid stalking your former Sugar Baby on
Facebook or “showing up” at the coffeeshop you know she frequents each Saturday.
Remember, you do not have to be stuck in an arrangement
with a Sugar Baby. You can end the relationship at any time, but you should do
so with class. Tell her why you can’t be with her and explain to her this is a
good thing for her, too. Do it in person and give her a nice goodbye gift.
Ending things this way will keep you on her good list should you ever miss her
in the future, and it will make you feel better about how you left things.
2016年5月4日星期三
Sugar Daddy: How to manage multiple sugar babies
Slowly but surely,
society is coming to the realization that monogamy isn’t the norm for everyone.
We’re all about helping you manage your relationships, even if that means more
than one. It’s not cheating if you’re honest, right? The stereotype of men who
date multiple women is that they’re players, or womanizers. While that does
describe some men, it isn’t always true. A man can date multiple women and
still treat them as a gentleman should; all without letting the intake effect
the quality of his dating game. Here are some tips for managing multiple Sugar
Babies.
1: Make each of your sugar
babies feel like they’re your only one
While she may be
aware you’re sharing your sugar with another Sugar Baby, it’s generally
preferable to most babies to feel like their Sugar Daddy is theirs alone. To
help further this along, be sure not to come to your date smelling like another
one, or feeling too spent from a late night date with a different Sugar baby the
evening before to be any fun for her. You’ll also want to avoid too many
scheduling difficulties. If everytime she asks you to meet up you already have
plans, she’ll get the impression that she’s not that important to you and go
off to find some sweeter sugar. In order to avoid this, you’ll want to be clear
about your availability and how you handle unscheduled meet ups with each of
your sugar babies from the start. This will clarify expectations all around and
keep your babies feeling like they’re your only one, even though they know
they’re probably not.
2: Make room for mystery
Having an open
communication policy is always good, but making
contact everyday
can get confusing in a relationship that is not exclusive. Let her wonder where
you are and what you’re doing, and don’t text or call everyday. If you don’t
have time to talk everyday, make this clear from the start and hope she
understands. If you do talk everyday, it’s acceptable provided she knows that
will not make the relationship exclusive.
3: Don’t take more sugar than
you can handle
As we all know,
too much sugar is not a good thing for anybody; the same is true for sugar
arrangements. You may get a lot of fun from a variety of different sugar babies.
But please don’t take on more than you can handle at any one time. If you do,
you’ll be spoiling the sugar fun for everyone involved. To avoid taking on too
much sugar, it’s essential that you be very careful as you add more sugar
babies to your roster. Consider the time you have available and the needs of
each baby before agreeing to be their Sugar Daddy. By the same token, if you do
decide to take on a second, or third sugar baby, and it ends up being too much
for you, call it off as soon as possible so you can prevent the nasty effects
of sugar overload for all involved.
4: Be a gentleman
You can be dating
as many women as you want, and as long as you treat them well you won’t hear a
single complaint. Having options doesn’t entitle you to be a jerk because you
know you have a dozen replacements. Give her attention and favorable treatment
at all times, that way she’ll like
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2016年5月3日星期二
Dos and Don’ts for a Sugar Daddy
Whether you’re an
experienced Sugar Daddy, or you’re
new to this type of dating arrangement, you’ll want to make sure you follow
some simple guidelines, some spoken and some unspoken, that will help you get
and keep a satisfying relationship with your Sugar Baby.
Dos: be clear about expectations on time commitment.
Yes, your time is
money, so is her’s. Keep in mind that she has other factors in life aside from
being a Sugar Baby companion. Set up a meeting schedule that works for both of
you.
Don’t: think that you
are entitled to sex on the first date
If you are looking
for a quick fix, they have services for that. Sugar Babies are looking for a
benefactor who can add value to their lives. Not a John looking to score a
quick hook-up.
Dos: be 100% upfront and honest
The only way to
have a successful arrangement with a Sugar Baby is to be honest and upfront. When
you know what you want in your arrangement (and you should know exactly what
you want before you start looking), you can express your needs openly,
honestly, and there are absolutely no repercussions, only a yes or a no. Being
able to say what you want and what you can give to Sugar Baby was so liberating
and it saves a tremendous amount of time weeding out people who aren’t on the
same page as you as far as an arrangement is concerned.
Don’ts: no call, no how
One would think
that any man with enough disposable income to become a Sugar Daddy would have
the manners to let a woman know if he is going to be late or not show up at
all. Unfortunately, it happens more often than not. If something does come up,
or if you have lost interest, have the courtesy to let the girl know.
Dos: spoil her because she deserves it, not because she wants it
This separates the
Splenda from Sugar. A Sugar Baby should never have to ask her Sugar Daddy to
take her shopping, on a vacation, or to a nice dinner. If she wants to have to
nag someone to spoil her, then she would be in a conventional relationship.
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2016年4月29日星期五
Sugar Daddy: Is she your Sugar Baby or just a gold digger
As a Sugar Daddy,
you are rich, successful. And there are always pretty girls around you; you can
find your sweet sugar baby easily. But have you ever been suspicious that the
person you are dating is more interested in your money than in you? Is she a
real sugar baby or just a gold digger? If you are concerned about this and want
to find out, here are some ideas to accomplish this and protect yourself before
it is too late.
1: She always has many reasons for having money.
She always has a
sob story for why she needs more money, or why she needs it sooner. While
there are instances where even the sweetest of Sugar Babies can find herself in
a bit of a tough spot, a gold digger is a professional con artist, and these
sob stories will pile in almost weekly. Also, don’t be surprised if she
has a new designer bag on her wrist next time you see her after helping her pay
for sudden car repairs.
2: She has no career aspiration
A gold digger
clearly lacks goals short of getting the next check to cash. Motivated Sugar
Babies have a goal in mind when entering the Sugar Bowl, whether it’s finishing
school, building her own business, or as simple as getting out of debt. There is one goal a gold digger may have that
you should be weary of, securing steady cash flow through marriage or a bouncy
bundle of joy. That’s at least 18 years
of steady monthly “allowance”.
3: Her friends are gold-digger
You can tell a lot
about a woman by meeting people from her closest
circle. If a girl
has a lot of friends that are only after men for their money, she will likely
have this same attitude. People attract others that have things in common with.
If her buddy, especially her best friend, is a gold-digger, you need to tread
lightly.
In the end, do
keep in mind, just because she comes to the table with needs in the arrangement
does not make her a gold digger. It means that she has a clear understanding of
the workings of a mutually beneficial relationship. While it’s always best to keep a look out for
these flags, you would be doing yourself a disservice to overlook some of the
prime Sugar Babies on Sudy for fear
of tasting a little salt.
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2016年4月28日星期四
Sugar Daddy: if you’re not George Clooney, how to date after divorce
Divorce isn’t a
single-forever sentence. Still, it can be intimidating to re-enter the world of
dating.
1: Make sure you’re ready
It sounds like
trite advice, but it’s worth following: Don’t date
until you’re ready
to date. You want to set yourself up for success. If you’re serious about
finding love again, make sure you understand where you are in the healing
process. Do you understand what went wrong in your last relationship? Are you
aware of your role in the marriage’s end? Can you identify what a healthy
relationship needs to look like for you? Give yourself the freedom of a little
time and make sure your past is firmly in the past, along with the infamous
“bitterness baggage,” before giving love a second chance.
2: Love yourself
Love yourself.
Sometimes it’s easier said than done. Take a new class, get a new haircut, and
eat healthier than ever. With the life changes you’ve gone through, make sure
you’re taking the time to focus on you. Learn to thrive in your new situation.
Dress in a way that makes you feel good about what you see in the mirror.
Switch up your daily routine so you’re not stuck in past patterns and ruts by
default, and choose to surround yourself with the people and things that
inspire you.
3: Stay positive — and be up for the adventure
It doesn’t matter
how old you are or what your relationship history is, first dates are
nerve-wracking. Give yourself a pre-date pep talk, reminding yourself of the
great qualities you have to offer. Stay positive, embrace the adventure, expect
a few disappointments, and see your life as an unfolding story, one that will
be worth telling.
4: Be honest
Divorce is rarely
a deal-breaker in the dating world. It’s a sad but
very real fact
that about half of marriages end, so prospective partners are often prepared to
date people who’ve been married before. While you probably shouldn’t spill
intimate details of your marriage’s demise on a first date, be honest and open
(if/when appropriate) about the fact that you’re divorced. Don’t judge yourself
on your date’s behalf; you’ll likely be surprised at the empathy and grace
extended in response to your honesty. Everyone’s experienced heartache; it’s
okay to be a little vulnerable about what yours looks like.
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2016年4月27日星期三
Sugar Daddy: What your sugar baby of choice says about her
There is nothing more attractive than a Sugar Baby who
knows what she wants. Arguably, that may be the reason some of you joined Sudy in the first place. But before you
are able to learn her dreams, aspirations, college goals, etc., it’s important
to look for subtle clues. Noticing the way she orders her drink is a perfect
start. Here is what her drink of choice says about her.
1: Red wine
Real women drink
red wine. It’s a delicate and traditional drink that for years, has been a
great companion to housewives, steak dinners, and celebratory binge drinking. A
women who religiously enjoys red wine is utmost classy and wants to see her man
as such. Show off that Rolex a little bit. Don’t be surprised that women who
prefer this beverage are rarely seen at bars. She’s a smooth talker and
intricate. Just like the stain this drink would leave if mishandled, rattling a
red wine drinker’s cage would leave an irremovable blemish on your life. You’ve
been warned.
2: White wine
Who doesn’t love a
lush? Just ask the housewives who ritually
indulge in this
beverage of choice. This Sugar Baby most likely knows a thing or two about
class. She knows how to pronounce “Pinot Noir” and may even have knowledge
behind the grape variety. She’s high maintenance and most likely not the type
you take to a sports bar. She wants you to see she knows how to handle her
life, and her man. After all, red wine can leave a nasty stain if mishandled,
therefore she’s careful and calculated. Her mannerisms and her speech might
just be as velvety and smooth as the liquid in her glass. Take caution with
this one, she’s not for the beginner SD.
3: Margarita
Are you ready for
a long-term relationship? Neither is she. These sugar babies love to party.
Look at the size of the margarita. If she has the glass that’s comparable to a
milk jug, she’s a regular and knows how to flirt.
4: Strawberry Margarita
On the surface,
the flavored marg sugar baby seems like a good time, but deep, deep down she is
just a walking ball of insecurity ready to burst. She is constantly worried
about what you’re thinking of her. She’s always obsessing about how she’s
standing to make sure her arms are looking as skinny as possible, terrified
about the possibility that her marg salt is stuck to the side of her mouth just
waiting to fuck up the Insta that she has been craftily waiting to post in
order to make her former bestie, the vodka soda drinker, cry out of jealously
and paranoia of weight gain.
5: Martini
James Bond isn’t
the only one who knows how to order a martini.
A Sugar Baby who
knows exactly how to instruct her bartender is going to be an aggressor in the
sheets, and full of mystery. She’ll intrigue your interests — she’s educated,
well-travelled, and not afraid to be strong in her values and opinion. Much
like the drink itself, she’s willing to be straight up with you. A
martini-drinking Sugar Baby most likely knows her limits, so don’t push her.
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2016年4月26日星期二
If Beckham be the Sugar Daddy, what should he do when he is sugaring?
38-year-old
ex-soccer player turned model may just be the perfect Sugar Daddy to numerous sugar babies on our website.
After all, the average age of a sugar daddy is 39. Clearly, he falls within our
age bracket. Of course, David Beckham is not currently enrolled as a sugar daddy
on our site, although he could be one day. But if Beckham be the sugar daddy,
as a married man, what should he do when he involved with a single Sugar Baby.
Here are some tips to help these married men navigate the rougher paths of sugar.
1: Set boundaries.
Boundaries should
be set with in your arrangement from the get-go. If this means you can only see
your Sugar Baby once a month, then this should be discussed when you initially
meet. You should also decide which discussions are off-limits. You should keep
away from hot-button topics such as your wife, kids, or anything too personal.
You do not want to cross a line, or get your Sugar Baby involved in the mama drama.
Your arrangement should be something to distract you from the daily routine.
2: Your needs are No.1
No strings
attached means exactly that. Your other strings should be
kept perfectly intact throughout the
arrangement process. No red flags should be raised to your coworkers, friends,
or family. Your Sugar Baby should be totally aware that she may not be your top
priority, and that the relationship will be a discrete one. You can still make
your Sugar Baby feel satisfied and taken care of through little presents or
gifts. This will have to suffice if you don’t necessarily have the time to
commit to seeing her face to face.
3: The L word
This rule is
pretty simple. Do not fall in love, period. Unless you are exiting your
marriage, do not fall for your Sugar Baby. It’s better to not lead anyone on,
and it could get extremely messy. Don’t let your hormones fool you – the L word
you could actually be falling in is Lust. And on the note of lust, always be
safe when you are sexually active with your Sugar Baby. You wouldn’t want any
accidents to occur. baby mama drama, no thank you.
If you are married
and discreetly seeing other people, it can be complicated, yet the rewards can
be very worthwhile. Unless you are in an open marriage, make sure to always
keep the two situations completely separate from one another, and have fun!
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2016年4月22日星期五
Sugar Daddy: How to spoil my sugar baby
Sugar comes in all
forms. But no matter how it presents itself, it’s always undeniably sweet. While
allowance may be the most traditional, and in many cases, sought after form of
steady Sugar, times are changing in the ways it can add sweetness to a Sugar
Baby’s life, without being sugar supplements. The bags may be beautiful and the
shoes are timeless, but take a look at some other rewarding forms of Sugar
today.
1: Gift Cards
She wants
something a bit more specialized. Basic gift cards like Target and Whole Foods
are great for staples, or gift her a few grand on a Saks card and see what she
picks. Some might see this as lazy, but I assure you, she will be pleased.
2: Travel
Those who claim
travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer clearly never had a
Sugar Daddy to foot the bill. The ability to travel to distant places that many
others simply jot down on their bucket lists is uniquely rewarding. Whether traveling allows you to gain culture
or a glowing tan, exploration is always enriching.
3: Living Expense
Taking on the
living expenses of a Sugar Baby may be daunting to newbies, but it becomes
mutually beneficial in many ways. Your
Sugar Baby won’t have to waste her time working numerous dead end jobs to pay
for an overpriced one bedroom just to keep herself out of the dorms. In return,
it frees up her time and availability to you, not to mention her gratitude
which can be quite rewarding on its own.
4: Cash
Favored by Sugar
Babies everywhere, cold, hard cash is always a great option. Paperless and
anonymous, this is the best option for a Sugar Daddy who wants to remain
discreet. Bonus points for crisp $100 bills.
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2016年4月21日星期四
Sugar Daddy Discretion
The perks of
having an arrangement go without saying, but the stigmas require a level of Sugar Daddy discretion. In order to
protect your privacy, here are some tips for remaining discreet.
1: Be care for what you post.
Before you agree
to your first date, be very careful what you post in your profile, as this is
public information and can be viewed by anyone: your exes, your employer,
co-workers, friends, family…you never know who might stumble across it.
Naturally, profiles with photos get more views and you want to include recent
pics of yourself, but I recommend blurring or cropping your face to completely
protect your privacy. Once you meet someone you are interested in, you can take
the conversation offsite and exchange personal photos privately via email.
2:About email: Create a new email address
Signing up and
communicating with people can both be done from an alternate email address. I
recommend using one that’s not your work email. Your information is completely
safe and encrypted on the site or app, so there’s no concern for your privacy
to be threatened. However, when you do start talking to someone new, your
information remains private until you are comfortable with her, and are ready
to share.
3: Have private photos.
Not only does this
entice women to see a bit more of you, this is also the safest way to have
pictures on the site. The images are only viewable from accounts whose
permission you have granted. If you ever decide against sharing them, simply
un-share and that person can no longer see them.
4: Get a “sugar” phone number
Smartphones open a
world of password protected possibilities, Google Voice is really great for
this. It’s a free service that allows you to choose from a database of
available numbers from all over the US
5: Be honest with your sugar baby
Telling anyone you
get involved with about your situation is vital to keeping things discreet. They
need to know your availability, when to call, and when not to. If you are
married, have kids, or have special circumstances, chances are they will be
more than happy to accommodate.
How do you think about
these tips? I hope it will be useful.
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2016年4月20日星期三
Sugar Daddy date preparation
As a Sugar Daddy, and at this point in life,
you’ve hopefully been on a few dates. A few bad dates, to be more specific. Let
us go over the best ways to make your next date a smashing success.
1: Phone calls
There are a couple
phone calls that need to be made prior to the date, preferably the day before.
The first one is to her, confirming times and making sure she’s still up for
it. This is also the time to make sure she doesn’t have any qualms or allergies
with the cuisine. Always have a phone call before meeting someone; it can help
you decide whether you really want to take her out. The next call is to the
restaurant making a reservation. Don’t show up without one, even if the place
is empty, she’ll feel good knowing you took the initiative to prepare for your
date. Finally, call or text anyone who might decide to blow up your phone
during the date, and kindly ask them not to. You don’t want her to be on her
phone, so try to stay off yours.
2: Dress sharply
Women love a
sharp-dressed man and if you’re about to become a beautiful woman’s sugar daddy,
you better look good beside her. Good taste in clothing can be cultivated and
since you want to be your own brand, don’t be afraid to find a style all your
own. If you need good advice, hire a personal stylist. He will be able to guide
you in choosing the right cut, color and trend that will bring out your looks.
If you want to create an extra big splash, learn to wear white tie properly
with this list – then invite your lady to a fancy white tie event. But above
all, remember, you don’t have to wear a suit to look sharp – you can dress
casually and still look a million bucks.
3 Arrive early
Nothing says you
don’t care like arriving more than 15 minutes late to a date. I suggest
arriving early, and sitting at the bar to wait for her. That way, you get a
head start on drinking so you’re loose, and you can text her saying “I’m the
devilishly handsome man in the black shirt at the bar.”
4: Cash in
Make sure to stop
and get some cash, so if the credit card machine goes down or the street vendor
doesn’t accept Amex then you’re covered. It’s always nice to have a little
extra on hand if you want to throw her a token of your appreciation or if you
leave your card at the bar on accident and need to pay the cabbie.
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2016年4月19日星期二
The benefits of being a Sugar Daddy
A Sugar Daddy is a rich older man who
offers professional and financial support to young female in exchange of
companionship and usually sexual favors. Being rich and successful could attract
a number of young women eager for a relationship of mutual convenience. Here
are a few benefits that come with taking on the role of a sugar daddy.
1: You do always get what you want
No
games, no waiting, no more. The Sudy
Sugar Daddy dating app turns a man’s “maybes” into reality by giving them
complete control in finding their perfect match. With women outnumbering men 10
to 1, a Sugar Daddy never has to settle for the “next best thing.” If you’ve
always dreamed of dating a young, vivacious blonde, she’s yours. If your ideal
arrangement is a beautiful black woman, she’s yours. A successful Sugar Daddy
deserves to ultimately make the decision—not a “matchmaking” system.
2: No-strings relationship
The best part of
being a sugar daddy is that you are not expected to fulfill the obligations of
a long-term relationship. Sugar babies know from the start this is relationship
is based on mutual convenience – she gets the goodies as long as she makes her
sugar daddy happy. He does not to have to shoulder the responsibilities that
come with a committed relationship and this makes the relationship an
attractive proposition for many older, richer men most of whom may have been
long-married and may even have grown-up children.
3: The perfect arm candy
She’s stunning,
she’s with you and she’s the reason why everyone’s head is turning.
Ever wonder what
it’s like to be Hugh Hefner? Now you know.
4: Less time
consuming
Sugar daddies are
usually men who have achieved a significant measure of success in their field
of work. This means that men who run companies or look after business empires
do not have the leisure to nurture and care for a relationship those younger
men might do. As a result being a sugar daddy suits these busy men since it is
a relationship where the partners already understand the give and take and no
time need be spent on beating about the bush. It looks good. A sugar daddy can
flaunt their attractive companions openly and publicly. Moreover it feels good
to be seen with a young, gorgeous woman who idolizes you and also know that
other men envy your good fortune.
5: Feel younger again
A Sugar Baby is
your own personal “fountain of youth” – she’s energetic, adventurous and open
to new experiences. And the best part? She wants to spend her youth with you.
You’ve dedicated your life to becoming a wealthy and successful gentleman. Now
relax a little and enjoy the finer (and more beautiful things) in life.
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2016年4月18日星期一
Biggest mistakes Sugar Daddies make
The best part of
the Sugar Daddy-seeking process is
finding someone who ‘clicks’ with all the special things you’re looking for.
But what are you saying to draw those potential sugary sweet interests? In
order to bolster your chances, make sure that you are not doing the following
with your ongoing efforts:
1. Talking too much about self
Yes, a woman, who
wants to be your sugar baby, will want to know that you are capable of taking
care of her physically, but she also wants to know what you can do for her
emotionally. Contrary to what some believe, these women are not usually greedy
and only after the money. They want a combination of caring and support from
you, and that's what you should be prepared to give them if you are serious
about becoming a sugar daddy. However, many men make the mistake of putting
themselves up on a pedestal and forgetting that she is even a person.
2. Taking care of the physical, ignoring the
emotional
Instead of buying
her whatever she wants and making sure she has no physical needs while spending
all of your time wrapped up in business and failing to make physical contact
with her, you should take time away from the office and the hectic pace that
you set for yourself, and include her in your life. Nothing sends a message
about what kind of guy you are more than how far you're willing to include her
in the things that you love. Too often, guys think that if they keep her
physical needs appeased, they will not have to worry with the rest.
3. Some messaging mistakes
The biggest
component of finding who you desire to spend time with is asking the right
questions. If a darling Sugar Baby opens your message with anticipation only to
find a wall of text with nothing but “I-I-I,” then a serious problem is
occurring. There must be a balance between talking about yourself and learning
about this beautiful person on the other side of the screen. Sugar Babies
should actively contribute to the conversation, yet Sugar Daddies must put
forth an effort to be genuine.
4: Lying
The final and
perhaps greatest tip to all Sugar Daddies is the need to avoid LIES. The Black
Eyed Peas could not have said it any better. Lies will get you into trouble. If
you are seeking discretion, lies will get you caught. Do not state in your
first message that you are leaving your wife, if you know in the back of your
mind that the conversation has never arose. Do not claim to have a wall of
college degrees when all you possess is a GED. These are details that come up
in conversation as you become more comfortable with each other. You’re bound to
slip up at some point, especially if there are multiple Babies in the Sugar
Bowl.
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2016年4月15日星期五
How to discuss allowance with Sugar Daddy
Talking about money in general is uncomfortable. But
talking about money with your Sugar Daddy can be so awkward that many Sugar Babies would rather avoid the
conversation altogether. But if you can’t talk about it with your Sugar Daddy,
then it’s almost a guarantee that you won’t get everything from you want from
your relationship. If the thought of asking a potential sugar daddy for money
terrifies you – don’t worry, you’re not alone. And – it’s totally natural. Most
of us simply aren’t used to asking for money and don’t have the first clue on
how to go about it gracefully. But practice – and a few tips – makes perfect.
Follow the tips below, practice them and you’ll be breezing through the
allowance talk in no time.
1: Get this one thing straight
This allowance thing is NOT about how much you are worth.
YOU are priceless. There is no way to set a monetary value on yourself and your
qualities so don’t even try. The allowance thing is about asking for what you
need and want; in proportion to the time and attention you can give to your
sugar daddy. Most likely, a monthly allowance will depend on several factors,
such as how much you need to live comfortably, what extra material comforts
you’d like, how much you’d like to save, how much time you plan on spending
with your sugar daddy, other expenses that will come up in your sugar
relationship, etc. Spend your time figuring out the monetary range of what your
needs and wants amount to rather than trying to assess how much you’re worth.
2: Get comfortable asking for what you want.
You have a set
allowance range now. Now the key is to get comfortable with it. You see, the
reason why discussing allowance is such an uncomfortable topic is that most
people haven’t had much practice in asking for money. And at first, asking a
potential sugar daddy for several thousands of dollars per month is going to
feel kind of awkward. Try it right now – speak your amount out loud to
yourself. Do you feel a tinge of discomfort? Any inner resistance cropping up?
Any little voices in your head that say, “That’s too much.”If you do – you’re
going to need this exercise. Repeat it ’til you’re so comfortable with
your number range, it seems guaranteed.
3: Confidence is key
Here’s something
that many sugar babies forget about men: They don’t usually bargain hunt. So
when discussing allowance, go in with the expectation that he will give you
what you ask for. This way, when he asks you for your ideal allowance, you can
respond simply and matter-of-factly that you’re “thinking $x,xxx.” Keep a smile
on your face and say what you want as naturally as you would tell him what you
plan on ordering for dinner. Be honest with what you want and don’t be afraid
to ask for it.
4. K.I.S.S.
At the same time,
do NOT feel like you need to justify the amount you’re asking for. Talking
about your debt, your bills, etc. is so, entirely unnecessary. Even if he asks,
remember that you don’t need to tabulate your expenses for him. Be blunt, be
matter-of-fact and stick to something simple, such as high cost of living or
your desire to save. You don’t even need to really justify this, just laugh it
off with a “Well, a girl’s gotta save, yea?”
In the end, remember
that all the tips in the world won’t do much good if you don’t put them to use.
So get out there and get used to asking for – and getting what you want.
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2016年4月14日星期四
Sugar Daddy dating tips
It can be a difficult venture to find that special
someone in your life, especially you are a Sugar
Daddy. You might not have much energy to handle the traditional relationship
so you turn into the sugar bowl. Even though the concept of sugar daddy dating
is quite clear and outgoing; sugar date can always be a bit stressful or tricky
when you meet each other offline. You might find yourself in a situation
wherein you do not know how to really behave and feel. And this is a common
observation between people who meet each other for the first time; as in, on a
date.
Therefore, to relieve you from all the thinking and
unwanted stress I have listed down a few basic tips for your sugar date.
1.
Punctual
A lot of people do tend to ignore this but if we
seriously consider variables; time is one of the most imperative things to look
out for. Similarly, when you're going for your sugar date, make sure that you
reach on time and this implies for both. There is never a good enough reason to
keep anyone waiting especially on your sugar date. If you're going to be late,
please make sure you inform the other.
2: Don’t be cheap
No you don’t have to spend thousands on a pair of nice
suit, but you do need to shell out a few hundred for a nice meal. The arrangement
is a value exchange, you pay for a nice meal and you both have a great time and
she rewards you with sex.
2.
Sniff out the gold diggers
There will be some girls that you will become familiar
with that are in it just for the money, they have no interest in sleeping with
you. The easiest way to sniff them out is if they talk about the money before
meeting you.
If they are normal girls that just want to experience the
high-life then they won’t come out with those sorts of questions.
3.
Plan the date out before meeting.
Get your story straight. Most girls won’t ask too many
questions, they will just assume that you have money, if you are on one of
these sites.
The other thing you need to plan is the restaurant or
first meet up place you want to take her too. I would recommend you take her to
a restaurant that is in the mid range, nothing too fancy that you can’t afford
but will easily be $200 to $300 for the both of you. The closer to your place
the better, this is a pretty important logistical rule if you want to attempt
to sleep with her on the first meet.
4.
Go on a test meet
So after the first meet is a feeler for what type of girl
she is (crazy, funny, adventurous, gold digger, DTF etc). It’s fine for you to
run the usual game, be very flirtatious with her, kino, learn about her and
connect on a deeper level. If you both get along and you feel as though shes
attracted to you, then proceed to the close… if she’s nuts a gold digger or
just butt ugly, then you should make your excuses and bolt.
Sugar dates are always
critical for a long lasting and healthy relationship. It is important that you
make the most of this opportunity and try to be as marketable as possible.
Although there is no dearth of sugar daddies and sugar babies, it would be good
if you are able to make a lasting impression on your maiden date.
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